However, life is not easy in the village. Successful births are as common as miscarriages, stillbirths, and children never making it to the age of 5. Most of the mothers we met have lost at least one baby and some have given birth 5 times with only one surviving child. One Saturday night, we have met family members of an anemic patient who has come from another village for medical treatment. However, the dispensary was unable to give blood transfusions which the patient needed, so they were referred to another clinic about 3 hours walk away. The next morning, we heard that the patient passed away at the other clinic just as the family was arranging a car to take them to
On a Tuesday night, a mother was giving birth to twins. The first child was delivered successfully, but the second child was in the wrong position (his arm came out, but not the head). The mother was in excruciating pain. She was screaming and crying as the doctor and nurses waited for the baby to turn position. However, it was a premature birth, the mother started labor 2 months earlier than expected. After an hour of screaming, the doctor thought it is an emergency to take her in the dispensary vehicle to
It is sad to think that both deaths could have been prevented anywhere else, but this is “real” everyday life in the village. Life is so precious yet so fragile. We laugh and we grieve, but with God’s grace, we live on, we continue breathing and living, we go on.